Homes are taking longer to sell - how agents keep sellers happy by utilizing systematic customer service systems about listing exposure & agent marketing efforts.
As listings take longer to sell across the country, real estate agents are entering unfamiliar territory. For many, this is the first time they’ve had to manage the expectations of sellers in a slower market. If you’re not shifting your systems to meet the moment, you’re already behind.
At Icenhower Coaching & Training (ICT), we’ve been here before. We’ve helped our clients navigate market downturns, longer days on market, and frustrated sellers. And one thing always holds true: when homes are taking longer to sell, how agents keep sellers happy becomes the key to success.
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The Market Shift: What’s Happening?
The spread of longer listing periods isn’t limited to just a few states. It started in high-growth areas like Texas, Florida, and Tennessee and has now crept into over half the country. This trend will likely continue because, quite frankly, it takes years to stop housing supply once it’s in motion.
Even if interest rates start to decline, that won’t be the silver bullet. Rates come down slowly, and buyers often wait for them to drop even lower. Agents banking on interest rate relief are playing a dangerous game. Instead, we must shift to actionable systems that keep our sellers informed, calm, and confident in our process.
Stop Selling. Start Exposing.
One of the biggest mindset shifts agents need to make is understanding that we don’t sell listings. Our job is not to talk someone into buying a home—it’s to expose the property to as many people as possible. From there, it’s either price or patience that does the work.
“If we get the maximum exposure and the home still hasn’t sold, it’s either priced too high—or we need to wait for the right buyer.”
That means your marketing efforts, online visibility, and communication systems are more important than ever. You’re not selling peanuts on the side of the freeway—you’re managing a long-term, high-investment product that requires strategy, not scripts.
Educate Before You List
The best time to solve seller dissatisfaction is before it starts. That means every listing appointment must include:
A breakdown of the real estate process
An explanation of how exposure leads to offers
A realistic timeline and expectations for feedback
A clear communication plan with weekly updates
You must explain that your silver tongue won’t make someone buy their home. What sells a home is maximum exposure, and what keeps sellers happy is transparency about that exposure.
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The Magic Month: When It Matters Most
The first 30 days on the market—what we call the Magic Month—are critical. This is when your listing hits all the major platforms and gets the most eyeballs. If you don’t get showings or offers during this window, it’s time to revisit the pricing strategy.
Using data from the MLS, Zillow, Realtor.com, and other portals, your team (or you, if you’re a solo agent) should track weekly online views and showing activity. Communicate this with your sellers every Thursday to set the tone before the weekend and avoid reactive calls that disrupt your personal time.
Weekly Listing Reports: The Secret to Seller Satisfaction
Our ICT administrative teams and solo agents use a proven tool: the Weekly Listing Activity Report. It includes:
Online view counts from all major platforms
Number of showings
Social media and marketing efforts
Feedback from buyers’ agents
Upcoming strategy suggestions
NAR’s pricing adjustment guidelines
This report is the foundation of a weekly email sent on Thursdays—paired with a quick phone call from the listing manager or admin. The goal? Proactive communication that shows you’re on top of things. You’re not just sitting around hoping a buyer walks through the door. You’re working a plan.
The Power of Administrative Support
Here’s the harsh truth: if you don’t have administrative systems in place, this market will expose you. Many agents relied on per-transaction virtual assistants or tried to juggle it all solo during the hot market. That won’t cut it anymore.
At ICT, we’ve always coached our clients to build strong admin support teams. Now is when those teams shine. They’re tracking online views, gathering feedback, managing the listing reports, and contacting sellers every week.
“The tide has gone out—and we’re about to see who’s been skinny dipping.”
If you’re a team leader or broker, lean into your admin support. If you’re a solo agent, start small and build from there. Either way, you must deliver high-level service to keep clients happy and retain your listings.
Here’s the harsh truth: if you don’t have administrative systems in place, this market will expose you.
Brian Icenhower
Use NAR’s Pricing Guidelines to Set the Stage
Educating your clients with data from the start prevents awkward conversations later. Use the following pricing indicators to guide expectations:
No showings in the first 7–10 days? You’re likely 5–10% overpriced.
10–12 showings and no offers? A 3–5% price adjustment is needed.
Still no activity after 30 days? Begin 1–3% adjustments until you find the market.
These benchmarks reduce the emotion around pricing and keep your sellers focused on facts.
Show Your Work. Prove Your Value.
When homes are taking longer to sell, how agents keep sellers happy depends entirely on what they can see. If you’re not showing your marketing efforts, your sellers assume nothing’s happening. But when you give them data, updates, and strategy each week, you gain their trust and loyalty.
This isn’t just about keeping one listing. It’s about getting referrals, preventing expired listings, and growing your reputation as a true real estate professional.
Final Thoughts from Brian Icenhower
Now is the time for agents to step up. This slower market is actually an opportunity to shine. Great agents and teams will differentiate themselves by the systems they implement and the support they provide.
Use your administrative power. Report your marketing activity. Set expectations. Track your metrics. Show your sellers that you’re not hoping for results—you’re working a strategy that gets homes sold.
When homes are taking longer to sell, how agents keep sellers happy is the difference between surviving and thriving.
Let’s make sure you’re the one thriving.
