Use these real estate marketing strategies for socially reluctant people looking to build their digital marketing and social media presences. 

Let’s talk about social media marketing strategies. Specifically, for those who are a little less … social.

Over the years, I’ve seen many agents struggle with this. Let’s dive into some effective strategies that can help you succeed without feeling pushy or arrogant.

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VIDEO: Real Estate Marketing Strategies for the Socially Reluctant

Embrace Humility and Contribution

One of the most significant challenges in real estate marketing is finding the balance between promoting yourself and staying humble. You don’t need to constantly boast about your achievements. Instead, focus on being caring and coming from contribution. Congratulate others, promote worthy causes and charities, and highlight the successes of your team. By doing this, you can maintain a humble presence without sacrificing your personable nature.

Leverage Your Existing Relationships

The best business often comes from those who already know and trust you. Building a strong network of repeat clients and referrals should be a top priority. While it’s essential to explore new niches and lead generation methods, never neglect the power of your current relationships. At Icenhower Coaching and Consulting, we emphasize growing this network into a robust book of business.

The Importance of Vulnerability

Being vulnerable is crucial in real estate marketing, especially in the age of social media. It’s about showing your human side and letting people know you want their business. This can be challenging for many, including myself. However, it’s necessary. 

Projecting an image that you have it all together and don’t need business can be counterproductive. Letting the public know you’re open for business and eager to help is vital.

Stand Out in a Crowded Market

Real estate is a competitive field, with about 1% of the population holding real estate licenses. Unfortunately, many of these agents are part-time and haven’t completed a transaction in the past year. To stand out, you need to differentiate yourself as a full-time, committed professional. Show potential clients that you are dedicated to getting their offers accepted and their homes sold.

The Role of Social Media

Social media is a powerful tool for real estate marketing. Even if you don’t enjoy it personally, it’s an essential part of the job. Being present on platforms like Facebook and Instagram helps you stay connected with your audience. However, you don’t need to overshare. Keep your posts vanilla, sharing just enough to stay relatable without diving into personal details. Highlight your family, your team, and your business in a positive light.

Be Ubiquitous

To succeed in real estate, you need to be everywhere. This means having a strong online presence, visible signage, and being active in your community. When people think of real estate, your name should come to mind. This ubiquity builds trust and positions you as a successful agent. People want to work with someone they perceive as successful because it makes them feel confident in their choice.

  • Social Media & Digital Marketing: Online Masterclass for Agents

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    Master proven systems and strategies on the most important social media channels for Realtors. Learn how to use digital marketing to increase your brand awareness and grow your real estate business.

    Designed for all learning types

    Video Training

    In-depth professional video training on every module, presented by the author, Brian Icenhower.

    Written Modules

    Detailed and downloadable written modules with detailed graphics, scripts, spreadsheets, forms, and so much more.

    Course curriculum

    Enrollment includes access to the following course materials for 2 years

    Module 1: Facebook Personal Page - Generating Organic Business
    • Video: Facebook Personal Page – Generating Organic Business
    • Workbook: Facebook Personal Page – Generating Organic Business
    • How to Create a Friends List on Facebook
    Module 2: Facebook Business Page
    • Video: Facebook Business Page
    • Workbook: Facebook Business Page
    • BONUS HELP: Creating a Facebook Page for Your Business
    • BONUS HELP: Adding Essential Information to Your Facebook Page
    • BONUS HELP: Creating a Professional Cover Image for Your Facebook Page – PART 1
    • BONUS HELP: Creating a Professional Cover Image for Your Facebook Page – PART 2
    • BONUS HELP: Stock Photo Download
    • BONUS HELP: How to Use Canva Tutorial
    • BONUS HELP: How to Find Royalty Free Images
    • Facebook Description Examples
    • Facebook Cover Templates
    • Keyword Research Toolkit
    • Keyword Examples
    • Successful Facebook Ad Examples
    Module 3: Instagram: Your Homepage & Content
    • Video: Instagram: Your Homepage & Content
    • Workbook: Instagram: Your Homepage & Content
    • STAY Social Media Strategy Calendar – Social Media Images
    • STAY Social Media Strategy Calendar
    Module 4: Websites, Landing Pages & CRMs
    • Video: Websites, Landing Pages & CRMs
    • Workbook: Websites, Landing Pages, & CRMs
    • Keyword Research Toolkit
    • Keyword Examples
    Module 5: Real Estate Blogs
    • Video: Real Estate Blogs
    • Workbook: Real Estate Blogs
    Module 6: Video Marketing
    • Video: Video Marketing
    • Workbook: Video Marketing
    • Pre-Listing Video Examples
    • Pre-Listing Video Scripts
    • 12-Month SOI Video Touch System
    Module 7: YouTube for Real Estate Agents: Creating Your Channel & Videos
    • Video: YouTube for Real Estate Agents: Creating Your Channel & Videos
    • Workbook: YouTube – Creating a Channel & Video
    Module 8: Pinterest, LinkedIn, & Twitter
    • Video: Pinterest, LinkedIn, & Twitter
    • Workbook: Pinterest, LinkedIn, & Twitter
    Module 9: Your Google Presence & Advertising
    • Video: Your Google Presence & Advertising
    • Workbook: Your Google Presence & Advertising
    Module 10: Online Reviews
    • Video: Online Reviews
    • Workbook: Online Reviews
    • Best Practices for Generating Google Reviews
    • Asking for a Review
    • Asking for a Google Review Template
    • Leave Us a Review Social Media Template
    • Google Review Request Email Template
    • Example Video: Reviews Request
    • Google Review Script & Instructions for Staff
    • Quick Tip: Reviews for each location
    • Online Review Job Post (Word doc with social post text)
    • Online Review Job Post (PowerPoint design file template)
    • Advanced Techniques for Getting Google Reviews

    About this course

    • $249.00
    • 53 lessons
    • 8 hours of video content
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    Immediate Takeaways

    Here is what you can expect to gain from taking this online course.

    • SCRIPTS to help you ask for Online Reviews, the new online currency for real estate agents.
    • SOCIAL MEDIA TEMPLATES that provide you with a great jumping-off point to get your social media channels rolling with clean, professional content.
    • VIDEO MARKETING EXAMPLES from top-producing agents that will provide you with inspiration and help you get started with video marketing.
    • SOCIAL MEDIA CALENDAR to help you build your own daily prompts and inspire creative and effective posting across all social media channels.
    • VIDEO TUTORIALS that walk you through step-by-step and teach you how to set up your social media home pages for maximum impact.
    • OPTIONS for how you learn best. Each module provides a downloadable PDF workbook as well as a featured video of Brian Icenhower, teaching the topic at hand. So however you learn best -- we have an option for you!

    Certification & Designation Upon Completion

    In this ICC online course, you will receive an official designation of "Certified Social Media Associate" or CSMA upon completion, as well as a downloadable (and printable) Certificate of Completion. Add your designation seal, as well as your designation letters, to your email signature to bolster your reputation and show off your expertise to clients and colleagues alike.

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    "I use ICC systems, the Online Learning Center, and the coaching program to coach and train my team of over 30 agents. I use the ICC dashboard systems to keep my entire team accountable for their activities and set proper expectations." Jake Rockwell Over 500 Units Sold Annually "I have coached with ICC for over five years. ICC has helped me quadruple my luxury business through marketing strategies so that I receive listings and sales through lead generation and multiple pillars of income." soi audio workbook Dennis Adelpour Luxury Agent - West Los Angeles "When we started coaching with ICC we worked all the time with some degree of success. Now, seven years later, we have grown to have the #1 market share in our area, we more than tripled our income and production, while also improving our work-life balance to enjoy our personal life with family and friends." recruit audio workbook Tammi Humphrey #1 Market Share & 100 Million in Annual Sales Volume I use ICC systems, the Online Learning Center, and the coaching program to coach and train my team of over 30 agents. I use the ICC dashboard systems to keep my entire team accountable for their activities and set proper expectations. Time Management for Real Estate Agents

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    Over 500 Units Sold Annually I have coached with ICC for over five years. ICC has helped me quadruple my luxury business through marketing strategies so that I receive listings and sales through lead generation and multiple pillars of income. Time Management for Real Estate Agents

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    Luxury Agent - West Los Angeles When we started coaching with ICC we worked all the time with some degree of success. Now, seven years later, we have grown to have the #1 market share in our area, we more than tripled our income and production, while also improving our work-life balance to enjoy our personal life with family and friends. Time Management for Real Estate Agents

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    #1 Market Share & 100 Million in Annual Sales Volume Instructor Brian ​Icenhower. Brian Icenhower is the CEO and Founder of Icenhower Coaching & Consulting (ICC), which provides customized coaching and training programs to many of the highest producing real estate agents, teams, and brokerage owners in North America. This progressive company also produces online courses, podcasts, training materials, speaking events, video modules, and real estate training books. Brian has been in the real estate industry for decades, and he has witnessed and studied the advent of social media and what it means for Realtors. Part of a Realtor's job is to adapt and change as new technology presents itself, and with social media and digital marketing, it is no different. Brian has distilled the information you need as a Realtor to not only survive but thrive in this age of social media and digital marketing, and it's all inside this online course. Brian leads this course where you will learn the cutting edge strategies and systems that provide positive results, engage your audience, increase your sales, and grow your business.

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Continuous and Consistent Effort

Consistency is key in real estate marketing. Avoid the trap of constantly seeking new lead sources while neglecting the basics. Being in regular contact with your sphere of influence, staying visible, and continuously building relationships will yield the best results. Success in real estate comes from a steady, long-term effort rather than quick fixes or shiny new tools.

Stay Humble and Positive

Maintaining a humble and positive demeanor is essential. Engage with others online in a supportive way—like their posts, leave positive comments, and show genuine interest in their lives. This approach fosters goodwill and keeps you top-of-mind without being overbearing. Remember, marketing in real estate is about people, not just properties. Building these personal connections is crucial.

Marketing in real estate is about people, not just properties. Building these personal connections is crucial.

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The Power of Vulnerability

In summary, one of the most powerful real estate marketing strategies is vulnerability. It’s about letting go of arrogance, reaching out, and genuinely wanting to connect with others. This approach not only builds trust but also encourages people to refer you to their friends and family. By staying humble, contributing to your community, and showing your human side, you can attract more business naturally.

Implementing These Strategies

To implement these strategies, start by evaluating your current marketing efforts. Are you staying in touch with your existing clients? Are you present on social media? Are you actively contributing to your community? Identify areas where you can be more vulnerable and more visible. Then, create a plan to consistently engage with your audience, both online and offline.

Final Thoughts

Real estate marketing doesn’t have to be daunting, even for the socially reluctant. By embracing humility, leveraging existing relationships, and being consistent in your efforts, you can build a successful and sustainable business. Remember, it’s about connecting with people and showing them that you genuinely care.

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